Preparing for Burials & Memorial Services

"I am the resurrection and the life," says the Lord. "Those who believe in me, even though they die, will live, and everyone who lives and believes in me will never die."

Death brings loss, sorrow and grief to all. In the face of death, Christians affirm with tears and joy the hope of the Gospel. As Christians, we believe that through Christ God has conquered death and that there is nothing that can separate us from his love. This faith enables us to hold on to God's grace and compassion even in the midst of deep sorrow.

However, Christians do not bear bereavement in isolation, but are sustained by the power of the Holy Spirit and the community of faith. The church offers a ministry of love, support, and hope to all who grieve.

The funeral service

The Christian funeral is a service of worship in which God's people share in the sorrow of those experiencing bereavement and witness to their faith in a living Savior. As we mourn our loss and remember our loved one, our eyes are firmly fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.

Because it is difficult when under emotional stress to plan wisely, church members are encouraged to discuss and plan in advance the arrangements that will be necessary at the time of death. These plans should provide for arrangements that are simple and that bear witness to our resurrection hope in Christ, in the context of the Christian community.

When death occurs...

Generally a family member or friend reports the death to the church as soon as possible after it occurs and makes arrangements with the Rector about the date and time of the service.

This is followed by a meeting between the Rector and family members to talk about liturgy, music, readings, and other aspects of the funeral service, as well as to give information about the deceased.

The Music Director is also available to respond to family members to discuss music resources and options, to refer for outside sources if needed, and to review their plans if other musicians are to be used.